questions

Could i ever be friends or even cool  with Miss Hilly? i constantly asing myself this question becuase in reality i would have really told her something that wouldn't be very good or something that would have hurt her feelings but because she is not in our era i would have been quiet and never said anything to her what at all doubt in my mind she would never be a associate or friend. 
What motivated Aibileen? was it because her son died and she needed something to ease her mind? was it because  she needed  a kid in her life knowing  that  she  had a kid ? or was it because  she liked working  and having a little  extra  money.
did the relationships between black people and white people  change over time? i honestly like asking  people  this  question  because  i get different  answers  evertime, i guess  it all depends  on where ,whom and how your living .
questions i need to be answered  by everybody,anybody,somebody